John wants to argue with that, argue that Ianto at least worked with someone open about this and that he doesn't even know how to be open --

Yet at the same time maybe it... doesn't strictly matter, if... If Ianto was never... close with this guy, anyway, whatever that means. Then -- maybe he really hasn't got much of a benchmark for this either.

"Just so long as your expectations here are pretty much on the floor already."