Terrifying and responsible. Responsible and terrifying? [ A shrug— there isn't a way that sounds better. ] She's a captain in the Temple Guard.

By the way, I'm going to take your avoidance of the question as confirmation that you do have other relatives and they're not all dead to you. Or you'd like them not to be. We're [ he moves his fingers between the two of them ] in a bit of a situation, at present. [ What with everyone being at least quasi-dead at present. ]