[ it means both of those things, and dutch lets him explore for a while, breath growing heavier, but after a minute or two, she tightens her grip, a silent command to stay still. instead of letting him set the pace, instead of letting him determine where to lick or to suck, she rolls her hips in a steady rhythm against his mouth, minute shifts in the angle accommodating for any change in position of his tongue until she only feels sparks of pleasure explode with every forward shift of her body. ]
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